On May 13th, we celebrated our 10th Wedding Anniversary. Years ago, we planned something special for this occasion. Sad to say, we were not able to make it happen, but it's fine. We're okay. What matters to us is, we remained in-love with each other.
Ten years. This is an achievement for me to be proud of. Thank God. We made it. We are truly blessed.
When we're just starting, people says, young couples like us will end in a failure marriage. Well, to be honest, I never expected that we will reach this stage. For we both have flaws. And starting a family at our very young age was a struggle. We had misunderstandings. Which is normal I think. We both experience bad moods because of stress from work, life, and our kids. We have been through some arguments too, many times. But we never let it end into any physical fight. We always make sure we will talk about it and fix it as soon as we can. As years passed, we both turned into a matured spouse and parents.
Our children is the center of our love. Because of that, we learned to be much more loving and show respect to each other.
We doesn't live a fancy life, but I am contented and never complained nor demand for more than he can provide. Instead, I am thankful. God blessed me with a husband that has so much patience and love. He accepted me for who I am. He is very forgiving and understanding. He supports me in every plans I have. He even pushes me to pursue my dreams and gives me courage whenever I doubt myself.
But there is one thing I am most thankful to God.. My husband never cheated on me. With all the arguments we had, none was about cheating. I am lucky, I must say. And I hope, he will keep being faithful to me and have this kind of marriage until the end.
We don't have any special "Secret to a Successful Marriage" to share. Just love, trust and respect your spouse. Pray and trust God. Our marriage keeps stronger because of Him.
Every woman dreamed of a successful marriage, but not all is blessed with one. That is why I am very grateful for what I have. Not perfect, but enough for me to be thankful of.
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